And we know that, until now, you’ve not had the opportunity to do so. You’re busy doing all the things. Balancing your career with your family responsibilities, and your to-do list with your want-to-do list.

You’re so caught up in doing and being everything for everyone else that you’ve forgotten who you are. You’ve spent so long prioritizing everyone else, that prioritizing yourself is a foreign concept to you at this point.

You’re thriving in your career, your home life is peachy – but you still find yourself wanting more.

That’s about to change.

It's time to grab life with
both hands.

We know that you want to get back to feeling like your most vibrant self.

Thank you, thank you, thank you. If not for the group, I am not sure that I would be staying on my goals, at least in this timeline. So thank you for giving me a bit of structure and accountability and best of all support. The group is amazing!! And I am so not used to being around women, it's so wonderful.

"The group is amazing!"

This is a place where you quickly discover you’re a part of an amazing group of women who are kind, caring, loyal and extremely supportive. It’s a place where you can share your wishes and dreams, thoughts, opinions, and feelings without the fear of being judged. 

"I can share without
feeling judged"

Rishma has built a beautiful community filled with an abundance of resources. A community where your creativity is nourished, your individuality is valued, your confidence is restored and the passion to follow your dreams and be the best version of yourself is once again awakened.

"You can be the best version of yourself"

community love

...not the convenient “friendships” and awkward chit chat you have with your co-workers, fellow parents or neighbors (instead of the inspiring, belly-laughter-inducing discussions you wish you could be having).

You want to have more energy and inspiration – there was a time when you’d be the first person to say “YES” to trying new things and having an adventure. Now your days are filled with Zoom meetings, kids birthday parties and life admin.

You’re searching for true wellness, more joy and fulfilment – you’re sick of feeling like life is passing you by and that all you do is TALK about all the things you want to do in your spare time.

You want to take up that hobby, write that book, learn that language, go on that girls’ weekend, visit that country, get back to YOU.

And you want to do it surrounded and supported by other women who are on the same journey as you.

Women who get what you mean when you say you’re looking for more from life. Women who nod their head in understanding when you say you feel like what’s missing from your life is opportunities for more fun, more friendships and trying new things.

Women like you.

We’ve got just the thing.

You want more meaningful connections with people you actually want to hang out with.

Bucket list adventures, immersive experiences and in-person retreats with your new best friends. Think of these as an elevated, more mature version of Spring Break.

xo epics

We're making things happen with in-depth experiences. Whether it's learning a skill, doing a workshop that dives deep into health and wellness topics or an actual real life, face to face activity - it's taking action with like-minded people. 


Imagine a community of women who are as ambitious, driven, fun, kind and supportive as you are – and now add in book clubs, workshops, and events. It’s all here.

xo socials


We’re cultivating a community of growth-minded women. Women who are kind, supportive and down for inspiring those around them. Although we’re not exclusive – we do have a responsibility to our community to make sure that each and every member shares our values.

This is why joining The XO Community is by application only.

How to Join

Fill in the application form.

How to Apply
Step 1:

Once we’ve received and reviewed your application, our founder, Dr. Rishma Walji, will reach out to schedule a call with you.

How to Apply
Step 2:

You’ll have the opportunity to have an informal chat with Rishma to ask questions and learn more about The XO Community.

How to Apply
Step 3:

apply to the community